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  • ‘The Interview’: Can Whitney Wolfe Herd Make Us Love Dating Apps Again?

    ‘The Interview’: Can Whitney Wolfe Herd Make Us Love Dating Apps Again?


    That was Andrey Andreev, who was the head of Badoo and was a co-creator of Bumble. And then you faced another workplace scandal after Bumble started, involving him. In 2019 Forbes published an investigation, and he was accused of creating a toxic and sexist work environment at Badoo’s London headquarters. He denied these allegations but ended up selling his majority stake not long after the article was published. It’s striking that you had to deal with a second high-profile case of alleged male bad behavior in your professional life at the same time you were building a company whose brand was about empowering women. What do you make of that now? I mean, horrible. Absolutely the worst-case scenario. I obviously felt sick for anybody that felt the way they felt, and I did not know about any of these allegations, which to a lot of people, they’re like: “Whitney’s a liar. Of course she knew all these things, and she’s covering up for this guy.” The frank truth is I was in Austin running Bumble very much as a stand-alone business. It’s not like I was sitting in [Badoo’s London] office all day and intersecting with those people, and so it was gutting to me. When Forbes called me and told me this, I was speechless. I was shocked. It was really important to Andrey that I be honest about my personal interactions with him, which, the frank truth is, I had never seen anything to that degree. However, I would never question a woman or another person in their experience, and I said that. And I believe those allegations were stemming from several years prior. They were not active.

    There was a range of allegations from different times. Right. But I think the bulk of the article was covering things that had been earlier days. I’m not trying to recuse myself from anything. That’s not what I’m doing. I’m trying to say if you look at the early 2010s, we’ve all seen the movies. The WeWorks and the Ubers. When you close your eyes and think about a tech company in 2012, you see beer pong and all the men together. I don’t think you close your eyes and think back on a progressive office space. What do you take away from this? I don’t know. Maybe I just found myself in two of the only situations, or was this painting a bigger theme of what was pervasive in tech culture at the time?

    The other thing about that period is that it’s such a moment of tech optimism. All these apps were coming out, they were backed by incomprehensible amounts of money. They promised to solve so many of the world’s problems. Did you believe that back then? I did. To be able to get on an app, see who’s around you, instantly connect with them and all of a sudden end up on a date with someone that you never would have met if it had not been for this interface, that felt really transformational. So did being able to order a black car on Uber. We were just at this moment — gosh, if any Gen Z people are listening to us right now, they are going to be like: “These people, what? Did they live in the dark ages?” [Laughs]

    Hey, listen, I remember the time before cellphones. So you know where I’m going with this. That was a huge leap in terms of efficiency and ease. I couldn’t believe we were in the center of this, and then — and I don’t say this in a self-promotional way at all — it’s really hard to do it twice. So many people over the years have been like, “Gosh, she’s just lucky, she wore a lot of yellow, she’s blond.” I’m not entirely sure people realize just how hard it is to get critical mass on an app twice.

    The next era of Bumble, you had a lot of growth during the pandemic when everyone was stuck on their apps. It was a huge moment. You go public in 2021, ring the bell, baby on your hip, and the very next year user growth starts to slow down. What do you think was happening? My opinion is that I ran this company for the first several years as a quality over quantity approach. A telephone provider came to us early on. They said, “We love your brand, we want to put your app preprogrammed on all of our phones and when people buy our phones, your app will be on the home screen, and you’re going to get millions of free downloads.” I said, “Thank you so much but no thank you.” Nobody could understand what in the world I was doing, and I said it’s the wrong way to grow. This is not a social network, this is a double-sided marketplace. One person gets on and they have to see someone that is relevant to them. If you flood the system just endlessly — you’re not going to walk down the streets of New York City and want to meet every single person you pass. Why would you assume that someone would want to do that on an app? This is not a content platform where you can just scroll and scroll and scroll and scale drives results. What happened was, in the pandemic and throughout other chapters, growth was king. It was hailed as the end all be all.



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  • Single Travelers Are Finding Love in Airport Lounges

    Single Travelers Are Finding Love in Airport Lounges


    Brittany Romano, 32, was not looking to start her own long-distance rom-com last September when she showed up to JetBlue’s lounge at Kennedy International Airport 10 minutes before her flight was set to board — but she did.

    That’s where she met Matt Harrington, 35, a schoolteacher from Pasadena, Calif. He had spied her rushing through security, and when she stopped in the lounge for her usual routine — “take a shot and use the restroom” — he sent her a tequila shot and took one himself. Then the two jogged to catch their plane, as it turned out they were on the same flight to Los Angeles.

    Ms. Romano, an entertainment journalist who lives in New York, assumed that would be that, but Mr. Harrington begged a flight attendant to switch his seat so he could sit with her. More tequila shots followed over the course of the six-hour flight; the pair still talk daily.

    There has always been something magical about an airport love story. “Airports are lawless,” said Natalie Stoclet, 32, a writer and designer based in Mexico City, who once had a flirtation with a man she met in the Iberia lounge at the Madrid airport. “You can have a cocktail at 8 a.m., wear compression socks with no shame and delusionally stare at the departures board, convincing yourself that you could change your flight and start a new life in Paris. Anything goes.” (Her lounge fling fizzled out, but at least she still has “a good airport story,” she said.)

    But airport lounges, those calmer, semi-exclusive spaces away from the deadening realities of modern air travel, have increasingly become a locus of romance for millennials, who post TikTok videos of themselves getting dressed up to go to the lounge early before a flight, hoping to find their soul mate or, at the very least, a fresh romance. It’s the new, “I’m looking for a man in finance,” if you will.

    “Romanticizing airports thinking I will casually find my future travel loving husband at one,” one TikTok user wrote. “Waiting mysteriously in the Emirates lounge waiting for my future husband to sweep me off my feet as I live in my own movie,” another user captioned her clip. “Can we have a designated ‘singles lounges’ at airports please,” asked a third.

    Grace Ma, 38, an investor in New York, and a Delta and American Express Centurion lounge fanatic, said that lounges are the new members-only clubs — though more intimate and less intimidating — which makes them a prime location for dating. “It’s more of a targeted location to meet like-minded people versus going to a bar in a random city,” she said. “Someone who has access to a nice airport lounge likely already checks off a few boxes for you, which could be psychologically more comforting. For example, they are willing to spend the money to enter, they have travel status, they are flying a certain class airfare.”

    Rachel Childress, 32, a server at the Delta One lounge in Logan Airport, in Boston, met her current partner there when he came in as a guest. In addition to the luxuries a lounge experience offers, it lowers the hurdles to meeting someone, she said.

    “There’s also no obligation to have to see someone again. It makes connections more thrilling,” she said. “Plus, thinking about how crazy it is that your paths crossed with someone? The sequence of events that had to occur for you to meet them? It’s fate.”

    Jennifer Higginbotham, 41, the director of premium services operations strategy and support, for American Airlines said “in-flight and Admirals Club meet-cutes are common.” The airline even hosted a wedding in its Nashville lounge. (Ms. Higginbotham’s husband proposed to her at Chicago O’Hare International Airport, so she’s quite the expert on airport love stories.)

    Claude Roussel, who manages lounge experiences for Delta Air Lines, said the carrier’s public relations team has a plan of action for managing proposals, which includes decorating the lounge, helping facilitate the proposal, and creating a special food and drink cart for the couple — often involving photogenic espresso martinis.

    Kishshana Palmer got the full experience. Ms. Palmer, 45, met cute in the Delta lounge at Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta International Airport’s Terminal B, in the summer of 2023. Her boyfriend proposed in the same lounge a year later. “Suddenly team members come out from the four corners of the earth,” she said. “They make me reapply my lipstick and then tell him, ‘Do it again,’ because this brotherman didn’t think to film it.” But he broke things off before their aviation-themed wedding took place.

    Ms. Palmer remains hopeful: “I still feel like I’m going to find my boo, and probably in another airport lounge,” she said.

    Delta also pulled out all the stops last year when Ryan Scheb, 35, proposed to Philip Tuzynski, 37, at LaGuardia’s Delta Sky Club. The two are self-proclaimed “aviation geeks” from New York, whose idea of romance is sitting in the airline lounge with a cocktail, watching the planes take off.

    While the promise of everlasting love is all well and good, not everyone is looking for commitment. Sometimes, a fling will do. YOLO-era singles chalk up the trend to two things: There is little to lose, and you’re both right there.

    Silas Forest, 29, a creative director in Los Angeles, was lounging through a layover in the Delta Sky Club at Miami airport when he saw a cute guy out of the corner of his eye. They exchanged shy grins and nods, but then it was time for Mr. Forest to go to his gate, two terminals away. “I’m standing in line when I feel a tap on my shoulder, and I turn to find the man. I’m instantly smiling but surprised he found me. My group is called, and I tell him I’ve got to go, but feel the urge to lean in for a kiss. He also leans in and we kiss in front of a bunch of people,” he said. “I boarded my plane grinning ear to ear.”

    Mr. Forest got the man’s contact information, but decided “to leave it at that — just one magical moment in the Miami airport.”

    Benjamin Schmidt, 29, a New York writer, opened his Grindr app at a Delta lounge in San Francisco and agreed to meet a match at the lounge bar. “We flew back to New York together, with some discreet and playful hand-holding on the plane and flirty conversation,” he said. And then it ended. “It felt like I rented a boyfriend for the day,” Mr. Schmidt said.

    Ms. Romano pointed out that airports offer few rules of behavior, and lounges give you the perfect setting for casual dating. “They have better lighting, free drinks, and no ‘What’s your bio?’ awkwardness,” she said. “The best part? If it’s not a match, one of you actually has to leave.”

    This love-in-the-lounge trend is more than a pang of nostalgia for rom-com fantasies or a millennial need to dissociate from reality. Travel experts and frequent travelers alike predict that airline lounges will begin to play a much bigger role in people’s romantic lives for one reason: Dating app culture has backfired.

    “App culture, besides it being gamification, is designed for you to opt out,” said Ms. Palmer. Meeting someone in person, you start searching for something in common, she added. “And here, the lounge is your thing that you have in common.”

    This all led Iñigo Merino, 30, to start a dating app aimed at fliers. “There’s so much digital burnout, of just being constantly online. We’re bombarded. And then there’s this love-hate relationship we have with dating apps,” said Mr. Merino, the founder and chief executive of Wingle, a new app that allows you to connect with users at the airport lounge and aboard your flight.

    Wingle users put in their flight details, and when they arrive at the airport, they can flag their location — like which lounge they are in. Once the plane takes off, the seat map illuminates with other users, allowing users to start a chat. And when the plane lands, the chat disappears. “So, either what happens in the air stays in the air, or you share your contact information so you can continue the conversation in real life,” Mr. Merino said.

    When people are traveling, he said, they are “in another mind-set, so you can make more meaningful connections. I mean, you’re stuck in this metal tube with up to 300 people, and I’m sure that among those hundreds of people there’s someone that you can have an interesting conversation with.”


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  • The Musical is a Classic and Tasty Love Story for the Ages

    The Musical is a Classic and Tasty Love Story for the Ages


    Instead of Romeo and Juliet, the game tells the story of Peanut Butter and Jelly set as a musical.

    Peanut boy and strawberry girl will travel across animated paper landscapes the music from Crumble Lady Lorraine Bowen. There are even unique spinoffs from different artists you can find.

    The unique soundtrack is composed with live instruments and made specifically for theme.

    Players of any skill level can enjoy the game with fun accessibility options like the magic rubber band that can help you through the different level.

    Real children and grownups are performing are will sure to put a smile on your faces. And as you might expect, there are tons of quirky characters and scenes full of details to discover and enjoy

    For the iPhone and all iPad models, PBJ – The Musical is a $3.99 download now on the App Store.



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